Matthew 26:39

And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.”
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Hours before the cross, in the garden of Gethsemane, the Lord Jesus falls to the ground and asks His Father to take the cup away. Three questions press in here: what was in that cup, why did He draw back from it, and what kind of will did He lay down?

What the cup held

Everything turns on one phrase: "this cup." One writer weighs what was in it, and what refusing it would have cost us.

He looked into the cup and measured its contents. It was all God's judgment against sin. If He drank it, God must forsake Him and cast Him off on the cross. It was not only the physical suffering and sorrow that man could give Him when they nailed Him to the tree. It was the unavoidable sense that God and He must part company. So as He looked at that cup, He said, "Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done." He knew that if He did not drink that cup of judgment upon the cross, you and I would have to drink it in eternity.

W. T. P. Wolston

Why He drew back

The shrinking is not a flaw in Him. It is proof of what He is.

The Lord held the place of the perfect Son of Man. He could not forget what rested on His bearing that name — even the question of guilt. But how was it possible, if He were perfect, for Him to think it an unimportant thing for God to hide His face from Him? He would not have been perfect if He had not shrunk from this one thing alone. He did not shrink from the temptation in the wilderness; God led Him into it. But there was in this what was anguish to His soul in the very measure in which He was perfect.

G. V. Wigram

"If it be possible"

The cup did not pass. God's righteousness cannot bend — not even when His own Son asks.

If God could ever have set aside the smallest part of His righteousness, He would have done it then, when His own beloved Son asked Him. But that was impossible. It would be easier to abandon the law of gravity than for God to move a hair's breadth from His righteousness.

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A will surrendered, not a will suppressed

"Not as I will" only means something if there was a real will to lay down. And wanting to avoid the cross was right in Him.

He knew well that He would face the agony of being forsaken by God as He bore the judgment of the cross. So He pleads with His Father, "if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will." As a true Man He had a will of His own, a will that was in every respect perfectly right. It was right that He should desire to avoid the dreadful suffering of the cross. Yet He asks for the Father's will, not His own. How this adds to the blessedness of His great sacrifice!

Leslie M. Grant

The garden and the cross

He took the cup from the Father's hand, not from His enemies. And what He does in the garden is not what He does at the cross.

Man and Satan brought about His death, but He knew how to separate what was theirs from the cup He took out of the Father's hand — the cup filled with the judgment of God. Because He was perfect He shrank from that cup, and in subjection He drank it. His request that the cup might pass from Him was perfection. At the cross what marks Him is a perfect calmness under judgment that no human heart can understand. It is an unbroken calmness in a darkness no human eye could see through. There is no agonising there, no weeping. All is fullest submission and perfect subjection, bowing beneath the awful load, bearing it in His own body on the tree.

W. T. Turpin

What the scene teaches us

One thing here we can copy; one thing we can never share.

He accepted the cup of wrath and judgment and emptied it on the cross, so that for us not a drop of judgment remained. Here the Lord was in total solitude: He alone could drink that cup. But in dependence and obedience He is our perfect example in Gethsemane. He faced a test beyond words, and He overcame it through His dependence and obedience. The disciples stand in sharp contrast: they slept in the garden, and all of them failed badly.

Michael Hardt

Summary

- The cup — not nails and mockery, but God's judgment against sin — and the parting from God it would cost Him.

- The shrinking — His drawing back measures His perfection; only a holy Person could feel what being forsaken meant.

- The refusal — the cup could not pass, because God will not move a hair's breadth from His righteousness.

- The surrender — He had a real human will. Wanting to avoid the cross was right, and He laid that will down for the Father's.

- The result — He alone drank it, so for us not a drop of judgment remained. Copy His dependence, not His suffering.

Reviewed by Orion on August 20, 2026