And at the end of two months, she returned to her father, who did with her according to his vow that he had made. She had never known a man, and it became a custom in Israel
Judges 11 ends with one of the hardest lines in the Bible: Jephthah came home and kept his vow. What he did — and why God allowed it — has divided readers ever since.
What Jephthah did
Commentators differ. One reading takes the words at face value: this man's own character makes the plain sense the likely one.
Samuel RidoutI must confess that, with everything I have read on the subject, I still cannot shake the conviction that Jephthah did what every simple soul who reads the passage believes he did. I would be glad to think otherwise. But this man was stern, self-righteous and set in his own opinions. I cannot believe he was too tender-hearted to do just what he said he would do with his daughter, and offer her up as a burnt offering to the Lord.
The other reading rests on the vow's own wording. Jephthah promised two things: whatever met him "shall be the Lord's, and I will offer it up for a burnt offering." The second clue is where she spent her two months — away from her father.
The great Jewish commentators of the Middle Ages have pointed out that these two last clauses are not identical. No one says of an animal burnt offering that it "should be to Jehovah." As a burnt offering, it already is. But Scripture does use that expression when human beings are given to Jehovah, as with the firstborn in Israel and with Levi. In those cases no one has ever suggested actual human sacrifice. And if the loving daughter had been giving herself up to death, it is next to incredible that she would spend her last two months in the mountains with her companions rather than with her broken-hearted father.
Arno Clemens Gaebelein, quoting A. Edersheim
Victory, but no verdict
Notice what is missing from the story: any word from God about the vow.
Henri L. RossierGod left Jephthah with the responsibility and the consequences of his vow, and showed neither approval nor disapproval of it. Heaven seemed closed to the voice of Israel's leader. Yet the Spirit of Jehovah granted him the victory.
The daughter's faith
She is the only child, and she makes no protest. Abraham and Isaac come to mind, but the two fathers acted from opposite motives.
Henri L. RossierAbraham offered up his son "by faith," at God's command. Jephthah offered his daughter by an act of his own will, which was simply a lack of faith… The father lacked faith, but it shone out brightly in his poor child. A rash vow had marked out this only daughter for sacrifice, and she submits instead of rebelling or blaming her father… She submitted for Jehovah's sake — a faint reflection, no doubt, of Him who said, "I have come to do Your will, O God."
From enemy to family
Jephthah's story does not end with his daughter.
Samuel RidoutIs it not true that Jephthah first offered up the daughter he loved, and then slaughtered his own countrymen? The man, it seems, reduced everything to one dead level. He had his sword drawn. He had killed the Ammonites, so he would kill his daughter, if he had promised God to do it. And having killed his daughter, he would take the fords of the Jordan and kill the Ephraimites… Have we not seen too much of that — treating the people of God exactly as we would treat the enemies of God?
Where this leaves us
The story is a standing warning against binding yourself by promises God never asked for.
F. W. GrantIn any case, the history stands as a witness to and against the terrible legal spirit of the human heart. That spirit could darken the joy of such a deliverance at the very moment God gave it. Our Lord now forbids such vowing outright: "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.' But I say to you, Do not take an oath at all." God's will does not need man's will added to it, only obeyed. To take on obedience that was never asked for is only to put yourself in bondage to your own weakness.
The verse ends by noting that this became a custom in Israel. That custom holds a lesson for us.
Leslie M. GrantAfter Jephthah's daughter was gone, the daughters of Israel took up a custom of going to the mountains four days each year to lament for her. Is there not a lesson in this for us today? One may be the victim of an unfair action, and we can do nothing about it. At least we can remember that injustice in self-judgment before the Lord. This is different from raising an indignant outcry against injustice — a common practice today — but learning to judge ourselves will bear much more good fruit than judging others.
Summary
- The vow — a promise made in the heat of victory drives the whole story. Nothing costs Jephthah as much as his own mouth.
- The debate — did she die, or live out her life unmarried? Commentators differ. The case turns on the vow's two clauses and on how she spent her two months.
- The silence — God gave the victory but no verdict. Jephthah carried the full weight of his own promise.
- The daughter — her father acted from self-will. She submitted for Jehovah's sake, echoing the One who came to do God's will.
- The lesson — hardness toward an enemy turned next on his own child, then on his own people. Make no rash vows, and judge yourself before you judge others.