“You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his male servant, or his female servant, or his ox, or his donkey, or anything that is your neighbor's.”
The last of the ten commandments names no crime at all — it forbids a wish. So how can anyone keep a law that judges what no court could see and no neighbour would notice?
From the act to the desire
The other nine commandments forbid things a person does. This one forbids a desire. Commentators note that the Lord Jesus later made the same move with two earlier commandments.
F. B. HoleIn the tenth, then, God made a law not only against evil things but against the desire for evil things. That is what makes it so death-dealing for an awakened conscience. In keeping with this, the Lord Jesus moved the weight of the law against both murder and adultery. He moved it from the act to the desire and impulse that prompts the act. He did this when He gave His Sermon on the Mount, reported in Matthew 5.
Another writer spells out what coveting actually is.
Leslie M. GrantTo covet is to crave something that another person has. You may never steal from him, yet the craving for what he owns is itself sin.
Why the wording is a prohibition
Nearly all of these commands come as a "you shall not." That wording itself tells us something about the people who received them.
Edward DennettThe real aim of giving the law was to bring to light what was in His people's hearts. That is why the commandment takes the form of a prohibition. Why else would it say, You shall not murder, You shall not commit adultery, You shall not steal, You shall not covet — unless the tendency to all these forms of sin was in them?
The sin the world overlooks
Coveting leaves no victim to complain and no evidence to produce. Commentators still call it one of the most dangerous sins.
A. T. SchofieldIt is a sin that is never satisfied. It grows by what it feeds on. It leads to all sorts of other sins. It is the one sin of the heart that the ten commandments forbid outright — a hidden, secret sin that comes out of the heart. It leads to injustice and oppression, and to turning away from the faith. God hates it. It shuts people out of the kingdom of God, and it ranks with sins like theft, idolatry, and adultery. Yet this sin is so deceitful that few see how dangerous and awful it is. The world hardly counts it a sin at all. So a worldly Christian finds it hard to see that coveting what belongs to someone else is as bad before God as theft or drunkenness.
Wanting more becomes idolatry
The commandment does not describe a criminal. It describes ordinary ambition.
William KellyCovetousness involves no dishonesty. It is not even hard or sharp dealing. It is no more than the desire for more — the very spring of modern effort, the motive of bettering oneself, recommended to everyone from the mechanic to the millionaire. So the creature becomes the object, not God. That is why covetousness is called idolatry. It is man looking down, not up in dependence on God.
The law reveals; it does not create
Paul said he would not have known coveting if the law had not forbidden it. Commentators are careful about what that does and does not mean.
C. H. MackintoshHe does not say that he would have had no coveting. He says only that he had not known it. The craving was there, but he was in the dark about it. Then the law, like a lamp from God, shone into the dark rooms of his heart and showed the evil that was there. It is like a man in a dark room. Dust and mess may be all around him, but the darkness hides it. Let the sunbeams shine in, and he sees it at once. Do the sunbeams create the dust? Surely not. The dust is there, and they only detect and reveal it.
The cure the law cannot give
If the commandment only exposes the craving, what removes it?
Leslie M. GrantWe cannot get rid of this covetous attitude unless the Lord Jesus works in our hearts by new birth. He makes us willing to judge our motives and to seek to live by wholehearted faith. Then, instead of envying others, we shall know how to "rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep" with no thought of ourselves. We shall be glad when others are blessed, even when we go without. That will not be because the law commands us not to covet, but because the grace of God is working in our hearts.
Summary
- Inward — The tenth commandment forbids the desire, not the deed. The Lord Jesus made the same move with murder and adultery.
- Hidden — It names the one sin of the heart in the list. Coveting is secret, never satisfied, and so respectable that the world barely treats it as sin.
- Idolatrous — Wanting more, with no dishonesty at all, still puts the creature in God's place. That is idolatry.
- Exposing — Like light in a dusty room, the commandment does not create the craving. It only shows what was already there.
- Answered — The command can only uncover the craving. Grace removes it, giving new life that is glad when others are blessed, even at our own cost.